The Unperfect Level-Up Framework

Our approach to becoming whole, living sovereign and embodying an Unperfect Life.

A wedding-like progression of steps leading up to a house with glowing windows and surrounded by trees and lanterns, illustrating stages of self-development with phrases like 'Becoming Whole,' 'Being Sovereign,' 'I Am Peace & Freedom,' and 'We Are Leadership'.

A life that actually feels like yours is closer than you think.

You just need a way forward.

This is the path that takes you there.

From understanding your story…
to living in alignment…
to becoming the ripple.

Step into your Unperfect Life.

Unperfect Level Up Competency Model

A seven-competency path for transforming self-awareness into embodied self-leadership and lasting self-love.

Circular diagram illustrating the Unperfect LEVEL Up Competency Model, with steps: Start With Awareness, Be Sovereign, Become Whole, and I am / We are. Inside the circle, it encourages examining your past as an observer, valuing lessons, embracing the universe, and realizing your needs are unique.
  • Be Intuitive.

    • When it’s alive:
      You trust your internal knowing, even when it doesn’t make logical sense. You move with a quiet confidence that comes from within, not from approval.

    • When it’s blocked:
      You second-guess yourself. You look outside for answers you already have. You override your instincts to keep the peace or play it safe.

    • Reflection:
      Where in your life are you ignoring what you already know?

  • Be Curious.

    • When it’s alive:
      You can look at your past with openness instead of shame. You ask questions instead of making conclusions. You create space to understand, not just react.

    • When it’s blocked:
      You avoid your story or stay stuck in it. You judge yourself harshly or rewrite your past to make it easier to carry.

    • Reflection:
      What part of your story are you avoiding looking at honestly?

  • Be Reflective.

    • When it’s alive:
      You recognize that even your hardest experiences have shaped you. You extract meaning and use it to move forward with intention.

    • When it’s blocked:
      You either dismiss your experiences or stay trapped in them. The same patterns repeat because nothing is integrated.

    • Reflection:
      What is life trying to teach you right now that you haven’t fully received?

  • Be Trusting.

    • When it’s alive:
      You believe there is something unfolding for you, even when you can’t see it yet. You allow space for uncertainty without needing immediate control.

    • When it’s blocked:
      You try to control everything. You resist uncertainty. You only trust what you can prove, which keeps you stuck in fear.

    • Reflection:
      Where are you gripping for control instead of allowing things to unfold?

  • Be Brave.

    • When it’s alive:
      You take ownership of your healing, even when it looks different from others. You choose growth over comfort.

    • When it’s blocked:
      You compare your path to others. You avoid the work that feels uncomfortable. You wait until things get bad enough to change.

    • Reflection:
      What is your life asking you to face that you’ve been avoiding?

  • Be You.

    • When it’s alive:
      You show up as yourself without shrinking or performing. You feel grounded in who you are, regardless of who is around you.

    • When it’s blocked:
      You shape-shift to fit expectations. You silence parts of yourself to be accepted. You question your worth based on others’ reactions.

    • Reflection:
      Where are you still performing instead of being?

  • Be Generous.

    • When it’s alive:
      You share what you’ve learned in a way that lifts others. Your growth naturally creates impact beyond you.

    • When it’s blocked:
      You hold back. You think you’re not “ready” or “qualified” to share. You keep your growth contained to yourself.

    • Reflection:
      Who could benefit from what you’ve already lived through?

This is a non-linear process—you meet yourself here again and again, each time with more truth and more choice.

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This is where the path becomes personal.

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