A curated collection of stories, tools and ideas to support your unperfect journey.
The Unperfect Library
The Unperfect Life Trilogy
A story of love that grows… from learning to receive it, to choosing to give it, to realizing you were it all along.
This story is unfolding in three parts.
Not just of a life… but of a love that keeps expanding.
Book 1: Becoming Is Messy
The Unperfect Life begins when you stop pretending and start noticing.
The moment everything begins to shift.
The unraveling of the life that made sense… and the truth that follows. Presales start August 21st!
Book 2: Choosing is Courageous
The Unperfect Life is claimed in the moments you choose what’s true.
The space between who you’ve been and who you choose to become. Learning to stand in your truth, even when it changes everything.
Currently underway
Book 3: Being is Enough
The Unperfect Life, lived in the truth that you were always enough.
Not written after the fact… but in the middle of living the unperfect life.
This is where the story becomes real-time, real-life, and fully your own.
You’re not starting at the beginning.
You’re stepping into the part of the story that’s still being lived.
Becoming Is Messy
A debut memoir and the origin story of The Unperfect Life Co. is on its way.
Becoming Is Messy is a story of unraveling, of love that didn’t last and patterns that did, and of what it takes to stop performing a life that looks right and start living one that feels true.
It’s not about fixing yourself.
It’s about finally seeing yourself clearly enough to begin again.
Becoming Is Messy will be published by Koehler Books later this year.
In bookstores December 15 • Presale begins August 21
Dear gentle reader,
The following are the books that have shaped the way we see ourselves, our lives, and what’s possible. Curated by the stewards, podcast guests, and members of The Collective, each recommendation reflects a moment of insight, growth, or transformation. Because sometimes one sentence, one idea, or one story… can shift everything.
Maybe one of these will shift something in you.
Every book holds a doorway. These are the ones we’ve walked through…